My Story

Hello, I'm Lorna Gager

I’ve been supporting women as a Transformational Life Coach for nearly a decade.

It’s funny looking back. But now I can see so clearly that I used to be pissed off all the time.

I was frustrated, angry, irritated, put out or furious at almost everything.

I got really good at pasting on my smile and saying, “I'm fine. Everything is just fine.”

But things weren’t fine.

In fact, everything seemed decidedly unfine. The world. Politics. Family and friends. Society in general. Traffic. The weather. Telemarketers.

You name it, it bothered me.

I found so much to be offended by and resist, wanting life to be different than it was.

Back then, if I had been fortunate enough to have a Life Coach, she would have explained to me that all my anger was covering up how I really felt, which was mostly hurt, sad and afraid.

Life just hadn’t turned out the way I thought it would.

Despite ticking all the boxes and building what the world considered a successful life, here I was, stuck in my own private hell.

And I didn’t know how I had gotten there.

Even though I had the trappings of a good life, nothing felt like I thought it should.

Everything I did felt difficult. A struggle. Like I needed to constantly explain and prove myself.

I knew I had so much to be grateful for, so on top of everything, I felt guilty for being mad all the time.

What was really happening?

For most of my life, I didn’t have any idea what I wanted. I had based my life goals on societal standards and just assumed those would make me happy (um, no).

I also couldn’t identify or fully feel my emotions. Anger was pretty much all I had access to.

Since I didn’t know what my emotions were, it follows that I couldn’t communicate to my loved ones in any effective way that would lead to the loving, connected relationships I desired.

To top it all off, I didn’t believe in or have any access to a higher power.

Even though it appeared to others that I had it made, on the inside it felt like I was walking around with a huge gaping hole in my stomach. A longing that could not be satisfied.

So how did I go from being this angry, put out woman to being The Practical Mystic?

My dissatisfaction became my greatest gift because it spurred my awakening.

After taking ownership of where I was, I set my sights on where I wanted to be.

First off, I had to figure out what I truly wanted. Who did I want to be? What were the things that would make me happy and allow room for the real me to emerge? The me I was before the world told me who to be.

Then I took a huge magnifying glass to my feelings.

I learned how to identify and accept all my emotions. They weren’t positive or negative, right or wrong. They just were.

With this approach, suddenly my feelings became an asset rather than a liability.

Suddenly my feelings could be used as guideposts instead of being shoved down inside me; coming out at inopportune times toward innocent bystanders.

Once I knew my own wants and feelings, I took the scary step of expressing them to those  I love. This led to much better, more authentic relationships.

And in the cases when it didn’t?

Well, some of those relationships had run their course and I gratefully let them go because of all the things they had taught me.

Others I care about enough to keep working on.

You should know: This awakening thing is a process and it isn’t always direct or easy.

But it is worth it, that I promise you.

Finally, let’s not forget that higher power thing.

Once I understood that God, Source, Universe, All that Is, whatever you like to call it, wasn’t outside of me, but is an integral part of all consciousness—well that was when things got really exciting.

I finally had the foundational piece that I had craved my whole life (remember that hole in my stomach? That hole eventually closed because my longing was at last fulfilled).

Knowing that everyone on earth is equally powerful and can create whatever they desire in their lives is incredibly freeing.

Now I understand that my thoughts, beliefs and feelings are being vibrationally matched by the Universe and I create everything in my life.  Everything!

So I use Universal Laws and my personal sovereignty to manage my thoughts, beliefs and feelings and this has led me to the life I always dreamed of.

I have real, true love; connected, aligned relationships; work that I am passionate about.

Nowadays, the way I feel on the inside genuinely matches how my life looks on the outside.

There will always be ups and downs, but understanding Universal Laws and keeping the bigger picture in mind allows me to move with ease and flow through it all.

And it is my passion to help other women do the same.

If any of what you read here resonates with you … if you think you're on the verge of awakening to the life you've always wanted for yourself … well, you’re in the right place.

Click here to schedule a Discovery Session. Let's get to know each other and decide if I can assist you down this glorious path.

In the meantime, be true to you.

Hugs,
Lorna